Thank you for sharing this so openly. I can really feel the moment you describe, when something shifts and you can’t unsee it anymore.
That kind of realization can be disorienting, especially in a relationship that once felt close and safe. What you’re noticing sounds like an important signal from your system.
It’s also very difficult when this is happening in a work environment, where it can feel like there’s no real space to step away. Some people can set clear boundaries more easily, but I understand how challenging that can be for others.
Reading this feels like synchronicity to me.
I’m experiencing this with a close female friend at work.
Felt very close and safe. And I’m noticing a habit of talking about others negatively and wanting to recruit me and others for her hate campaign.
(Screeching brakes sound)
Oh damn. What do I do now?
I relate to what you say.
Thank you for sharing this so openly. I can really feel the moment you describe, when something shifts and you can’t unsee it anymore.
That kind of realization can be disorienting, especially in a relationship that once felt close and safe. What you’re noticing sounds like an important signal from your system.
It’s also very difficult when this is happening in a work environment, where it can feel like there’s no real space to step away. Some people can set clear boundaries more easily, but I understand how challenging that can be for others.
I’m glad the piece resonated with you.